Why dont men like overweight women?

[RodgerRamJet]

This question has been asked for a long time, and i think i found the answer. It lies is evolution and basic human instinct.

If you think about it, in primal days, a male would be attracted to a woman because of their hips. Sounds a bit weird but there is a method for the madness. The hips support an infant right? Would a fine postured hips may be the reason a male is attracted to a woman, soley because it would be more suited for the child.
Over the years men have maybe made this they're instinct to be more attracted to a woman?

I dont know, its just a thing i have been thinking about for a while.

[Jebus]

Too bad you are a retard

Ever hear "those are some fine child bearin' thighs" said about a particularly overweight woman as an insult?

Your thoughts are old

: old:

[Element]

I have a better reason : Fat chicks are fucking gross.

[Jebus]

LOL owned

[Hacky]

Everybody knows that what we find attractive about the opposite sex is becuase of our primal nature to breed. It's an old, old discussion.

[semiavrage]

I have a better reason : Fat chicks are fucking gross.

I second that. :puke:

[NOBODY WANTS TO SEE THAT!] - Hacky

[Hacky]

I agree as well.

[the.doctor]

we dont like fatties because they eat too much and demasculinate us - plus they sweat fsking crisco

[Tep]

Ok now that picture that was posted is gross that is just wrong...it's just wrong. There is a difference not all fat people look like that nasty shit.

[iLazz 2.0]

Speak for yourselves here. I reckon women who are a little overweight are very attractive. Real women should have curves and something to grab hold of. If you don't like curvy women you're most likely gay. Look at all the women in old paintings. They are all curvy. Not one "hard body" in sight. They knew what side their bread was buttered on back then.

[Hacky]

SO what we're getting into here is what each person describes as "fat".

300 lbs woman named Burtha that scarfs down entire Subs without chewing = Disgusting

Slightly overweight woman that doesn't fit the perfect model thing = Not bad

I'm sure all guys know when to draw the line.

[Mastaninjapirate]

Thank you for removing that image, Hacky.

I don't think it's instinct nowadays so much as what's "pleasing to look at."

Same principles apply with anything else, really. Most people would choose to surround themselves with nice-looking things, regardless of comfort or personal value.

[Lame Face]

I've never found stick thing chicks with a cups to be very attractive. They look like you'll break them by accident.

A little bit of weight never hurt anyone, and it makes for better features.

Although, excessively overweight women are disgusting.

No offense to any female members.

[Jebus]

Curves are good, morbid obesity is not

[klo1313]

You guys are fucking shallow. Or, in words you can understand, beggers can't be choosers.
Personally, I find slightly above-average weight more attractive than those uber-thin models you see on TV.

[Napalm]

My view, is that if you have a belly, you're fine, if your belly has a belly, dear god no.
in other words anything over 250 is a no-no.
lol you bastards demoralizing women with weight everywhere.

[klo1313]

Well one thing's certain. Everyone has their own personal tastes. Hell, I know people who actually prefer larger girls. And that's cool.
I mean, I aim at personality more than looks anyway, so it doesnt matter to me.

[Lame Face]

I agree with y'all, like I said.

When you have curves, it's great.

When your curves have curves, it ain't.

[Phlintlock]

Yeah I second that.

[kixer]

I like to think that I'm not a shallow person - that I don't judge people on appearance. It's the same if I'm looking for a girlfriend (although a good-looking girl is always a plus :P). But then again if I dismiss them for girlfriend material it wouldn't be solely because of their looks.

[semiavrage]

Oh, I agree, I hate really, really thin girls. I'd much rather have a more heavy girl, don't get me wrong. Its when you inflate to the size of a hot air baloon (AHEM picture) that is gross.

[Hacky]

See, everybody is agreeing, none of us are shallow. Women are good at a nice average weight, none of that stick stuff, but none of the looks like she swallowed one of those huge bouncy balls at Walmart.

[Napalm]

They have feelings too, asshole!

[KrazyKain]

IMO skinny is not good, i like a bit of fat, it makes them seem more real if you know what i mean...

i am personally beyond looks, (being that i cant afford to have standards, i aint exactly a 'hunk') and care mostly about personaliity, although i do have preferences when it comes to faces... a cute face makes all the difference....

[semiavrage]

IMO skinny is not good, i like a bit of fat, it makes them seem more real if you know what i mean...

i am personally beyond looks, (being that i cant afford to have standards, i aint exactly a 'hunk') and care mostly about personaliity, although i do have preferences when it comes to faces... a cute face makes all the difference....

^Agreed, I feel the same... well... except for the not being a hottie part :-p... I am clearly Gods gift to women.

[EmeraldFalcon89]

Being thin and being fat are both signs of loss of self-control, or lack of thought. It's not healthy to be very thin or very fat. I think both kinds of girls are disgusting. Obviously I'd find obese ones to be more disgusting because the mere thought of 300 pound Bertha rolling around sweating sends me into a little coma. However, I'd never date or even be remotely attracted to one of those anorexically thin girls (see Mary-Kate and Ashley) because I find it shallow of them to be so insecure in their appearance, personality, and other values that they're willing to starve themselves to have a chance. It's equally shallow of men to seek an overtly thin girl as a status symbol, which is really all that is.

[Mr.Badguy]

Big girls make men burn their asses on the lightbulb, this is why men will always go for a skinny woman instead of an obese one. But saying that, skinny women are pretty gross much better to have a bit of meat to hold on to.

[Hdarim]

Well one thing's certain. Everyone has their own personal tastes. Hell, I know people who actually prefer larger girls. And that's cool.
I mean, I aim at personality more than looks anyway, so it doesnt matter to me.

And I'm one of those people, I like girls with some size to them like my girlfriend now, Its better then having a walking stick of a girlfriend.

Mind you this is my own personal opinion that I had for my whole life.

[klo1313]

And I'm one of those people, I like girls with some size to them like my girlfriend now, Its better then having a walking stick of a girlfriend.

Mind you this is my own personal opinion that I had for my whole life.
Man, I have more respect for you than you could imagine.

[Hdarim]

Thank you klo that means alot.

[KrazyKain]

as long as you never turn into a feeder
(if you dont know what that means, its a fetish, where the guy likes fat woman so much they literally force their girlfriend/wife to eat to the point that they could kill an elephant by sitting on it (had there been anyhting in the world strong enoug to lift her onto the elephant that is)
but somehow i dont think you meant to that extent anyway, i just think that feeders are disgusting people, and they turn there 'other' into an extremely gross being... big woman are pretty ok, but there are limits to everything

[Denial]

I'm fine with thin to somewhat chunky. (I don't mean visible bones thin, nor covered in cellulite chunky.) Athletic isn't bad.

I'm at about 70% attracted to personality and about 30% looks, but both at the same time is definitely fine with me. And believe it or not, that doesn't seem too uncommon around here.

[Orbixx]

I'm fine with thin to somewhat chunky. (I don't mean visible bones thin, nor covered in cellulite chunky.) Athletic isn't bad.

I'm at about 70% attracted to personality and about 30% looks, but both at the same time is definitely fine with me. And believe it or not, that doesn't seem too uncommon around here.

Totally agree with you. I have a girlfriend who's slightly over-weight, but I don't give a shit because I can get on with her.

[Crispy]

Physical attraction is what first brings two people together, and then personality takes over.

[Orbixx]

Physical attraction is what first brings two people together, and then personality takes over.

God damn, another person I have to agree with.

[kixer]

Kinda worked differently for my girlfriend and I. It was really personality attraction more than anything else (at least for me). We were good friends for about a year and then I found out that she really like me a lot. Thought I might as well give her a go as my girlfriend... and here I am, 2 years later same girl.

[Hdarim]

as long as you never turn into a feeder
(if you dont know what that means, its a fetish, where the guy likes fat woman so much they literally force their girlfriend/wife to eat to the point that they could kill an elephant by sitting on it (had there been anyhting in the world strong enoug to lift her onto the elephant that is)
but somehow i dont think you meant to that extent anyway, i just think that feeders are disgusting people, and they turn there 'other' into an extremely gross being... big woman are pretty ok, but there are limits to everything
You Obivously don't have all the facts on what your talking about KrazyKain I'm not a feeder but what your talking about forced feeding which is gross and well un-ruling and cause's what your explaining.

A feeder is someone who will feed the desired male or female of there relationship and are ok with it to the point were either its a normal amount of food or at lest enough to put some extra weight on there partner not too point of immoblity but somewhat close to obesity or even a weight in a sense where both of the partners are comfortable or that can agree with.

[KrazyKain]

well i actually said "i dont think you meant to that extent". so i wasnt exactly calling YOU a feeder. and believe me, maybe not feeders in general, but there are the ones who do it to the point of imobility, i heard its some sort of sexual attraction to having a larger than life girlfriend, making her like some sort of god or something.. its sick, very sick.
but hell, you agree its sick, thats all i wanted to hear!

[klo1313]

Here in Montreal people are way too obsessed over looks. Every girl you see is uber-skinny. And I do mean EVERY girl. I haven't seen a single girl yet downtown over 90 pounds. It's actually quite sad.

[Hdarim]

well i actually said "i dont think you meant to that extent". so i wasnt exactly calling YOU a feeder. and believe me, maybe not feeders in general, but there are the ones who do it to the point of imobility, i heard its some sort of sexual attraction to having a larger than life girlfriend, making her like some sort of god or something.. its sick, very sick.
but hell, you agree its sick, thats all i wanted to hear!

I know, I will admit I'm a FA ( Fat admier ), and I somewhat share that sexual attraction not to the point of some sort of god as you said. I find it attractive none the less of having a larger girlfriend then normal but nothing the size of of say 350 pounds plus, I would be scaried that I would be crushed.

[kixer]

In ancient times, overweight women were seen as the most attractive type of women in a lot of societies. I think this proves to an extent that the general attraction to thinner girls is artificial rather than instinctual. The media play a large part in this. imo.

[Hdarim]

Your close minded and your can't respect other people's opinions. STFU !

[klo1313]

Hdarim... you rock. Don't ever change. I-- wait you're picture is in the beautiful thread already right?
Oh well doesnt matter. Have some REP. ^_^

Everyone has their own tastes tho, and I respect that completely. Its when people bitch about others' tastes that I get annoyed.
I personally dont care about weight. I'd be lucky to have any girl.
Wait a sec never mind I'm living in last year. Um.. I'm 100% for personality.
My current girlfriend is smoking hot! Thats just a bonus tho.
What's the point of dating the hottest girl around if shes a cheating bitch? Thats why I think personality is key. Know what you're getting into before you bang her.

[EDIT]

I am not bothering with reading all of these posts. All I know, is

FAT CHICKS SUCK. NFC! (roxor)
If that's all you know, then you know absolutely nothing. History and society speak the opposite of what you say you 'know'. And if you're not going to read the posts, then dont post. Easy as that.


Yadda Yadda Yadda....all bull shit. NFC!
Hey asshole.. this is 'serious discussion' not 'bitch about someones personal preference'
Watch yourself. Mods are lurking.
I'd strangle your scrawny 15-year-old neck until your eyes bled, but this is hardly the place.
Now repent, or ye shall have earned an enemy.


In ancient times, overweight women were seen as the most attractive type of women in a lot of societies. I think this proves to an extent that the general attraction to thinner girls is artificial rather than instinctual. The media play a large part in this. imo.
How very very true.

[Hdarim]

Your right Klo, as well I'm not all for looks myself remeber this little old saying I say now and again:

"Personality is key, everything else is a freebie "

[klo1313]

Truer words never spoken yo. I'd -REP this ass clown but I'm all repped out.

[TripsEX]

No fat chicks. I draw the line at Jessica Alba.

Just kidding. Girls gotta have a little bit on them, otherwise they're just nothing, and I will break them.

[klo1313]

http://i5.photobucket.com/albums/y169/stevertv/guide.jpg
Hey lookie what I found!
3 is avarage.
I guess I'd rate my preference to be roughly 3 to 5.

[Coolguy]

in my opinion...i think the majority of men do not like overweight women is becusae they have been brainwashed their entire lives. Everywehre we see, slim supermodels walking around in lingerie and everyone telling us its sexy our entire lives. Our friends have made fun of fat girls which also affects us into not liking fat girls.
hmm..i dont remember if it was the 1700's or 1800's but being fat meant as a sign of wealthiness and therefore were preferred by women.

so the question is...if society was different, and instead promoted fat girls, would we all think fat girls are much more attractive?

They say beauty is in the eye of the beholder....i guess sometimes we are afraid to admit we find is beautiful due to media and peer pressure and therefore block it out, and we go back to finding beauty in what the media and our peers tells us what beauty is.

If you met the most awesome girl ever...like PERFECT for you...and she was very overweight...but you had everyone telling you she was ugly and fat...it affects you.

some of you may disagree with me because you dont feel teh same way...but i believe its true in the majority of the world.

Tribes in African find beauty in their members to have black teeth...if someone had black teeth in the US...we'd find it repuslive. So there we go....our peers affect our judgement.

oh well...i personally like normal girls a little on the slim side + athletic...thats just me.

[Hdarim]

It's your opinion and I'll accept it as well your right its mostlyin the world of today the media's doing to brainwash females of today if your not like this girl yopu are not pretty and you won't find anyone that likes you blah blah blah and so forth, which is wrong I know alot of people that have the same perference's as I do for girls of a larger size and I know people in the oppsite and in between.

We are all friends and respect each other, if there was a more open minded and understanding society in the world and accept things like this I wouldn't have such A problem with people that just can't except other people's interests even to the little point.

[Jebus]

Klo and Hdarim need to get a room

[klo1313]

Care to join us, jebus? We're gonna play Timesplitters and eat cheesies ^_^

[Ym3x]

Cause they gross.

And I have high standards.



This question has been asked for a long time, and i think i found the answer. It lies is evolution and basic human instinct.

Nail+You=Head.

[kixer]

Nail+You=Head.What are you trying to say?

[Hacky]

In ancient times, overweight women were seen as the most attractive type of women in a lot of societies. I think this proves to an extent that the general attraction to thinner girls is artificial rather than instinctual. The media play a large part in this. imo.
Wrong. In ancient times overweight women were seen as most attractive because they had money. Today, it takes no money to be fat, eat a Fast food every single day for a year and tada. Although the obsession over extremely skinny girls is obviously not natural, I however don't see any guys that say
"Omg I love my women 30 lbs underweight"
We want a normal sized woman, with qualities that we would like our children to have.

[klo1313]

What are you trying to say?
Don't mind him. Hes a n00b on a posting spree.

http://i5.photobucket.com/albums/y169/stevertv/postspree.jpg

[Hacky]

Don't mind him. Hes a n00b on a posting spree.

http://i5.photobucket.com/albums/y169/stevertv/postspree.jpg
Son of a fuck, it's Matrix all over again.

[KrazyKain]

to me beauty has nothing to do with size, as stated earlier i have my limits to whats excessively overwieght and underwighet but they are extremes.
i myself see true beauty in the face. a girl with a cute face, with a smile to kill for is my only shallow want, personality plays the most important part, but the face for me matters more than any other part of her.

[EmeraldFalcon89]

http://i5.photobucket.com/albums/y169/stevertv/guide.jpg
Hey lookie what I found!
3 is avarage.
I guess I'd rate my preference to be roughly 3 to 5.
I answer, Le 4.

[urod]

Look, men don't like extremely overweight women because if they would ever want to have sex with 'em, they simply wouldn't be able to penetrate their erm... sexual organs which are hidden under thick folds of fat and skin. Its that simple. :)

[Mr.Badguy]

Look, men don't like extremely overweight women because if they would ever want to have sex with 'em, they simply wouldn't be able to penetrate their erm... sexual organs which are hidden under thick folds of fat and skin. Its that simple. :)

That really does not conjure up nice images.

[Mastaninjapirate]

Point is there's a difference between:

http://images.google.com/images?q=tbn:_SwRENCmmjEJ:home.utm.utoronto.ca/~kathrynd/GENDER%2520WEBSITE/IMAGES/80s%2520-%2520katie%2520-%2520anorexic15.jpg

and

http://www.tvsquad.com/images/2005/09/fat%20albert.jpg

[dEUS]

You can't speak for men in general.
Every man has his own taste, preferences.
Yet, society can make a direction in what's hot and what's not.
Like, in the Ancien régime (1500) overweight women were hot due the society of that time.

[Mad_Monkey]

to me thin girls are discosting.....and when i mean thin i mean where u can see every one of her bones and an apple she ate 2 hours ago

i find girls with a little tummy to be very attractive.....but not to the point where u need a ladder just to get off the girl

[the_chimpster]

I personally think tht overly thin women are disgusting, but so are very overweight women, my ideal range would be anywhere from 120-150 lbs, because ive been on both sides of that road*shivers* and ive decided that for myself

[Mad_Monkey]

**HUGS**


its ok man....it has happened to all of us.....atleast u got away safely

:dance:

[Mr.Badguy]

I've never been with an overweight girl, and I don't intend to.......

[the_chimpster]

yeah.. but my problem is that i havent been able to get someone like that for the longest tie, plus im about to give up on relationships.. and start worring about more important things. but anyway..

[Hdarim]

I found this amusing, I still like bigger girls but hell I thought this need'd to be here.
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v96/Omegaprime00/sexy2dy.gif

[Mad_Monkey]

that comic is funny and sad at the same time since its so true

[TripsEX]

Cause they gross.

And I have high standards.


I have two high standards; one of them is grammar.

Now, juding solely on how you type, I can assure you that you'll never get laid in your lifetime and your hand will cramp from carpal tunnel syndrome from strokin' it so much. It doesn't end there though, you'll soon have to go to the doctor and explain how this happened, with the chronic masturbation and all. He'll write it down in a file, that will be dropped by his secretary on her way past your school. Someone will get ahold of it and photocopy it and paste it all around school. Soon, walking into school you'll be handed bottles of lotion and tissues from the teachers alone. Other kids will sodomize you in the ass with hot irons or a funnel where they simply pour seltzer water into your ass, and then have you drink it out. You'll reluctantly agree to doing this because you've already lost all your self respect with the fact that you can't use your left hand for anything but holding a pencil since the grip has been set that small.

What's that on the floor? Oh, your shit. It's been ruined.

[Typo_the_Lover]

I have a better reason : Fat chicks are fucking gross.
This is beyond true...I dont care what anyone says, if a chick has what I like to call "Thunder Thighs" then you should avoid them. http://dontworryttishere.ytmnd.com/ STAY AWAY FROM THESE IF YOU ENJOY LIFE!http://duffplayboy.ytmnd.com/

[Typo_the_Lover]

yeah.. but my problem is that i havent been able to get someone like that for the longest tie, plus im about to give up on relationships.. and start worring about more important things. but anyway..
YOU NEED SECKS

[dEUS]

I find that comic rather cliché.

[Mastaninjapirate]

Even I chuckled at that comic.

[SpatulaMaster]

I find obesity in general to give a bad first impression. Unless it is a because of a medical issue it shows a general lack of control. That being said, I hate women (not explicitly women, I hate men too.). I don?t think obese women are too terrible until they try to look hot and wear skimpy clothing. If I were very overweight and a woman, I would at least respect everyone else enough not to ruin their sex drive for week, maybe months. Actually if I hated them enough I might ruin their sex drive?